1. HEALTH REPS.
I want my husband to make decisions for me when I am incapable of doing so.
2.The kind of treatment I want and do not want
---I'm a hypochondriac (a disorder characterized by a preoccupation with body functions and the interpretation of normal body sensations (such as sweating) or minor abnormalities (such as minor aches and pains) as portending problems of major medical moment.) I always had this feeling that I would die of cancer. If I came to a point in my life that I would suffer such a disease and if it is malignant, I would rather stay at home and wait for my demise.
---I don't like hospitals and being around white-robed people.My husband is a nurse, so I don't have any problems with whose going to check my vital stats, monitor my intake of medicines, IVs and stuffs like that.
---I want my grandchildren and children to visit me regularly. They should always make sure that my bed sheets, pillow cases and my room
very clean. ---I want to listen to Britney Spears everyday. My own collection of her albums should always be played in my room.
---My husband should sleep beside me. I want to die in his arms.
I am afraid of ghosts and they say that if your time is near you would see your dead relatives. My husband should always be at my side.
3. How comfortable do I want to be:
---I want to take a bath everyday. I don't want to smell bad when I die.
---I don't want my visitors to cry when they see me.
---I hate wearing underwear, don't make me wear one when I die.
---All my clothes should be in pastel colors, no dark colors please.
4.How I want people to treat me:
--- Respect me. I don't want people to pity me or to gossip about my condition.
5. What I want my family to know and last wishes:
---I want to tell my family that they should follow me asap. JOKE!!!
I would tell my parents (if they are still alive), husband, children, grandchildren and my brothers that I love them very much. I would say sorry for all the bad things I've done.
To my parents:
Mama and Papa mahal na mahal ko kayo sobra. sorry na sa pagiging bungangera ko nung nabubuhay pako. Sorry kung hindi ako naging mabait na bata at dun sa mga panahon na nagkamali ako. Salamat sa pag-aalaga niyo sakin sa lahat lahat ng sacrifices na ginawa niyo samin,sa pagtanggap niyo sakin kung anu mang ugali meron ako. The best kayong dalawa!
To my brothers (Onad, Mac, Dol):
I love you all!Magpakabait kayo. Wag niyo papakialaman yung mga gamit ko.hehe..Tigilan niyo pagkapilosopo at kulit niyo ha.Alagaan niyo si mama at papa. Wag niyo silang pababayaan. Mag-aral kayong mabuti at ayusin ang buhay niyo!!Mag DOTA kayo once a week lang kung hindi mumultuhin ko kayo.Dadalhin ko sa libingan yun fuse para hindi niyo na mabuksan ang pc.Magtulungan kayo. Magpaparamdam ako sa inyo isa-isa.
To my husband:
i love you so much. I will wait for the day that you will rejoin me (in heaven or in hell).
Even death could not separate us. I will watch over you. Wag ka nang mag-aasawa uli kung ayaw mung multuhin kita. Please sleep in our bed and don't be afraid of me when I'm gone.
To my future children and grandchildren:
I love you!!!Lagi niyo ko dadalawain sa sementeryo ha.
I am allowing public viewing.
My coffin should be color brown. My dress should be white, light make -up only.
My wedding ring, diary, pictures of my family, Britney CD should be inside my coffin.
There should be an avp or powerpoint presentation highlighting the important and happy moments of my life.
People attending my wake should not wear dark colors.
They should bury me in Sanctuario de Paz Memorial Park in Norzagaray, Bulacan.
My clothes should all be burned.My jewelries I will leave to my husband and children.
Wed Mar 04, 2009 1:50 am